ACCEPT IT - That is not to say give in and do nothing because "it is what it is" Keep Doing!
But at the same time , realize and understand that we need to love them for who they are and walk their walk not try to change them and force them to walk ours.

I have this at my desk and read it daily but it is sometimes so hard to believe in and if being on this side is hard for me I can only imagine how Caydie must feel with everyone telling her she has to be a certain way and not understanding. All I want is for her to be happy and to help her figure how to find her place. Sometimes I forget to Accept It.